This commentary is for every mom or dad who has ever personally lived through or contemplated helping their youth athlete transition into a new select sports "career path" from a former one. I chose those terms over "team" or "program" in jest, but let's be honest, the youth athlete of today receives more pressure at a younger age to choose the right fit...and to choose it wisely...than in generations past.
This new reality mainly has to do with the fact that select teams are no longer what the designation implies. I firmly believe that anyone who is willing and able to write a check can find a team/program that claims to be select. Therefore, parents need to be more diligent and choosy when deciding what is the best choice based on their child's ability and desire.